Another on the Spectrum And Driving

Well I recently came from another IEP meeting where another of my girls is being helped for Autism and ADD after much testing and a Psychologist evaluation. I think I might just melt down! lol, works for them I should be allowed once a year right? Well that gives me 4 confirmed children on the spectrum out of 6. Well I guess I should be grateful that 3/4 of them are aspies. I dont know if it really makes a ton of difference as they all melt down and the latest child also has sensory disorders so you never know what is going to set her off. I however am fairly certain my youngest is also an aspie but she flaps and repeats which my others have not they do call it an puzzle for a reason :)

My oldest Aspie has been having alot of anxiety and depression lately she tries the hardest to fit in with her peers then seems to come home and shut down. School is getting to be alot for her to keep up with halfway through 11th grade. I hope she can keep it together till high school graduation but the emotional toll is what I worry about. She also has got a learners permit and is driving AHHHHH! lol just kidding she is actually pretty good.

My second also an Aspie struggles with OCD behaviors and anxiety. We have been using a stress ball and this seems to have limited her finger chewing. She has also adjusted to life as a 7th grader to some degree so she is less anxious.  She also comes home and is very tired just needs to unwind.

My third is neuro typical and seems to do well she does struggle being in a family full of Autism and trying to keep her siblings focused at times.

My fourth is the newly diagnosed Aspie mentioned above school is a huge challenge for her more then the others as she is more distracted. She has been in Dual immersion and struggling to keep up with the double homework I am not sure how long she can keep it up. She is very good at spanish and actually struggles with english so I am unsure what the best move will be for her.

Ahh My fifth a son he has adjusted well to kindergarten however his latest is to tell me he is too tired to go to school. He got an ear infection and the flu and just does not seem to have bounce back very well its been 3 weeks so I am waiting to see they say flu can linger for 6 weeks. I actually had to carry him into school today and I have not had that ever. He discovered a lego book at the orthodontist office the other day and had to have one now he cant wait to get home and look it over again and again.

Last but not least is my flapper she has a huge vocabulary and speaks well like my oldest did. However when she gets upset she flaps her hands and can not talk to you its like her brain is misfiring.  She also at times like when she wants something she repeats it over and over and over like 4 times. Even if you acknowledge that you heard her she cant stop.

Well such is the challenge of my husbands and my life. I love my kids and try daily to met their various needs I just hope that with divine help we can help them succeed to the best of their abilities.